In marriage there are several needs that need to be taken into serious consideration. I will mention 3 of them, honesty and openness, physical attractiveness, and financial support.
Honesty and openness–
Most of us need honest and openness as this will a sense of security and it increases the bond in the relationship. It is important that spouses become honest about their emotions, traditions, likes, dislikes, daily activities, expectations and any plans for the future. When a spouse is not honest and open about things this destroys the trust and the other spouse can feel insecure. This can also help build up compatibility.
Physical attractiveness–
It is important that the spouses stay attractive to each other. Women often change especially after child birth their physical appearance can change, so men should realise this will happen. The husband should be there for the wife as she will also go through some emotional challenges after her body changes. It is always good to encourage her and tell her how beautiful she is, keep reassuring her, this way she will feel secure and her confidence will come back. Women should try and keep up with cleanliness, dress well, do your hair make sure you also look nice despite the physical change. Look sexy and feel sexy.
Financial support–
The bible said husband should take care of his family, and the wife should be a helper. It is good for the wife to also help the husband this will lighten the burden in the household. It is good for the wife to also earn a living it does take the pressure away. The couple should be able to trust each other with their finances and this depends on how the couple has decided to run their finance. Finance is usually hard to talk about in a marriage and yet it is one of the most important need that needs to be addressed to have a happy and stable marriage. So people should never take this need for granted as it can make or destroy the marriage.
May every marriage find guidance and wisdom from God.
Stay blessed.